1.NEVER TAKE THEM SERIOUSLY
When you are to start something new or when you take a risky effort ,there will always be people to comment you on whatever you do .They are the people who say ” IT IS RISKY DON’T DO THAT ” .That is actually their opinion .Everyone has got their own opinions and it is upto you to put it into into heart or mind or dustbin.
Never hear to what people say .Do what you feel and at the same time be ready to face the consequences as well .Sometimes it may end up good and sometimes bad .But be ready to take both .
2.NOT ALL CARE YOU
When your peers say you something about the work you are to do ,it does not mean they tell you that because they care for you.Not everyone in this world care for you .I see even people just taking live face book videos and photos when someone is there struggling for help .
I don’t mean the world is so horrible and full of people with rude mind ,at the same time i don’t mean it is just full of people with holy heart and mind ,if so there won’t be any sexual harassment ,war and attacks right ? I always try to keep myself positive that people around me are just angels and i feel the same.
But still not everyone is angel sometimes there may be someone jealous of your growth and development ,they may try to degrade you when you are up for a new task .So hear to advice of people who REALLY CARE FOR YOU and not everyone .
3.DON’T TRY TO EXPLAIN
Never try to explain your position or situation ,not many are interested in hearing to it ,You may be trying to make them understand your situation but they may end up in either making fun of it feeling happy for it or try to give you advice which usually irritates you .So just don’t explain
4.NEVER GET ANGRY
Never become angry. When you become angry it shows that either you agree with them or respect and obey their words or take their words into mind. Only if you do either of these you end up getting angry REMEMBER POINT 1
5.FINISH IT UP WITH A SMILE
Either to hear them or not whether you like their advice or not even when you accept with them or not just have a smile .
A smile on your lips and no thoughts on your mind and an invisible head set and zipped lips is all you need to solve every problem in your life
except the financial crisis .So go with it
As i said , never try to explain or make them understand .They are not that wise enough to understand you.
You can never make a cat understand English ,you can never make someone understand your feelings( they may feel the same as well ).JUST IGNORE 😉